Being married can be one of the greatest life journeys in existence. Married couples should be enjoying this time to embrace love, grow and unite with someone who is equally committed. Marriages almost never become an instant success. In my experience, people only seek marital counseling when things are at their absolute worst. Couples should be working hard from day one so things never get too far off track. So gentlemen here is a short list of suggestions you can do today to make your wife feel special. Moreover, it will costs you ZERO dollars and less than an hour of your time. As they say “Happy wife, happy Life”.

Cook Her Dinner

If you can read, you can follow a recipe from a book or the Internet. Start by putting together a list of ingredients you already have in the house. Look online for recipes “under 30-minute meals”. I have posted a few below. Surprise her with a meal when she gets home, or breakfast in the morning. Alternatively, put on some music and have her sit and keep you company while you don the apron and spatula for a while. If you prefer not to use a recipe, you can never go wrong with scrambled eggs and toast served to her in bed. The point is to make her feel like a queen and serve her. A home cooked meal is synonymous with love. Even if it’s under seasoned or over cooked, it’s sure to make her smile.

Foot massage

Nothing feels better than a loving caress, and even more so, a massage. Some eastern practices suggest that massaging specific pressure points on your feet can relieve ailments all over the body; including stress, headache, and even induce arousal. Use massage oil, baby oil or even lotion. I like the perfect combination of these three. Caress her feet for 15 to 20 minutes. Want to go the extra mile? Check out the link below

http://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/features/how-give-her-most-spectacular-foot-massage-ever

Run her a bath

 This time is designed for her to isolate and relax. If your lady has 30 minutes alone to unwind at 8:00, at 8:31 she’ll be looking for you. Add some pizazz! Pick some rose petals from the garden to add. If you don’t have a garden, borrow some roses from a neighbor. Light candles and add just the right music. Use bath salts to help release toxins built up from the day. Essential oils like lavender, chamomile, and peppermint are medicinally used to help people relax and detox. Afterward, she will be putty in your hands.

You’ve got mail

Sit down and write her a handwritten letter gooey with sweetness and words of love. Put a stamp on it and mail it to her. There is something therapeutic and sincere about handwritten notes. Studies show that people keep handwritten notes ten times longer than other text communication. The effort put in has a sentimental value that goes a long way.

Make Her Queen For a Day

Offer to be her servant on a leisurely Saturday or another day that you are both free. Make her wish your command. What errands does she need? What’s on the “honey-do” list? Be proactive and take matters into your own hands.

Record Yourself Speaking Dripping Wet Love Flirts and Email It To Her

 You can do this with any smartphone. Email her a mp3 file that she can play through her phone or Ipad. She can revisit on the days you are driving her crazy. This can work in video form also.

Write Sticky Notes

 And leave them all over the house before she wakes up or gets home from work. Be corny and romantic. Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there in the most extreme way for the woman you love. Put the notes on the refrigerator, in the bathroom, garage or her dashboard, etc.

Miso Glazed Salmon

http://dailyburn.com/life/recipes/miso-glazed-salmon-recipe-snap-peas/

 

Easy Garlic Chicken